It is fascinating for me to watch people’s interaction with babies. Watch and observe just how many people will turn to you and interact with a baby that would never do so if you didn’t have one?
It is a beautiful thing if you think about it. With babies there is no danger of rejection. It is just innocent beauty and goodness… and even more fascinating is that people inherently know that and respond to it. There is something deep inside of us that is wired for genuine unguarded connection.
This is also something to be intentional in teaching young kiddos. There will be times when a little nugget is busy playing or maybe has a rush of shyness. I think it is a great thing to use those moments to teach and encourage extravagant friendliness and valuing other people. Teach them that they should take every opportunity to brighten someone’s day. Help them realize they have such a great opportunity to share God’s light in this world.
With our older kiddos we try and find times to stretch them in this area. As an example, for our boys I will send them over to talk with one of our older neighbors I see sitting by themselves outside. Each child is different and by knowing them so well you will know these type of “small stretch” situations for each that won’t be too much for them.
As parents this is a small, but tangible way we can make this world a better place and continue to participate in bringing God’s kingdom rushing forward. Good stuff.