Maybe one of the most applicable and important story for parents that Jesus told is that of Mary and Martha. The importance of this, especially in our culture, continues to grow in my mind.
One of my favorite authors brought this story up in something I read tonight. He noticed that Martha’s real issue is not that she is doing the typical thing of her day in that situation. Jesus corrects her with hopes of waking her up to the fact that she is not “present” in the moment. Her frustration is a clue to this.
What a perfect place for Jesus to teach us about this. In a typical situation we find ourselves in, so much to do, while Mary provides the perfect contrast… sitting at Jesus’ feet fully present with the “one thing” that is truly needed in this life.
In whatever you do… be present. Wake up. In every moment of our lives this is available to us and a challenge to us. Quit confusing activity and accomplishment with progress. Challenge every “should”.
Consider rereading this story with fresh eyes and a fresh and honest look at applying it to your life. Slow down and be present… with God, with yourself, with your spouse, with your nuggets, with nature, with the stranger, with all of life.